My arms are fleshy, plump, and have cellulite on them. They are fat. And they are also beautiful. Before I evolved into the body-loving woman I am today, I NEVER wore tank tops, even on the hottest summer days. Showing off my arms was the totally off limits. I would wear a sweater or something with sleeves … [Read more…]
No more crossing your legs because you don’t want to take up space. Spread em’ wide and get comfortable in your body. Stand tall and proud. Claim the right to let your ass jiggle and your thighs wiggle!
Am I body love failure? No. What I am is brainwashed from years of exposure to advertisements that promise a flat stomach in 10 days. It is so ingrained in my subconscious that I often hold my stomach in without realizing it. Today, as I walked back to my office from my lunch break, I … [Read more…]
First things first.Three years ago I could not have imagined writing this. But all my self-lovin’ work has paid off and I can actually see the good in my body now. When I wear a fabulous, over the top outfit, people pay me compliments, and never mention my size or weight. It’s as though my confidence … [Read more…]
It’s the time of year when everyone is talking about resolutions. Resolutions to buy less and be more; Resolutions to spend more time with friends and family instead of in front of the TV; and of course, resolutions to lose weight. Just writing that sentence triggers me immensely. I’ve had decades of resolutions that were … [Read more…]